I was mad: I mean absolutely LIVID! My exact words were, “I’m DONE”! Why?
We’ve all been there:
- Mad when we give our all and it seems no one is listening.
- Mad when we put our best foot forward and are seemingly ignored.
- Mad when we feel betrayed or maliciously used.
- Mad when we've been lied to, talked about or falsely accused.
I could go on, but the reason you think you’re mad is not important. Of greater importance is your why.
You see, none of the above reasons are why you are mad, they are just the symptoms. The reason you are mad is because you did not LISTEN to your inner voice, spirit or intuition.
This is not a message of condemnation, but revelation. There is always a voice of your soul that guides you. That voice, although sometimes gentle and mild, tells you whether or not you should go into a situation, trust a particular person or if an “opportunity” is a good fit. That voice tells you timing, considerations and how to assess the situation. (Woe unto the person that ignores it!)
When you’re excited and over the moon about the chance to do something, that same inner voice says,
- Maybe you should think it over
- You really should think twice about working with him or her
- Don't move so hastily
- Proceed with caution
Be honest: how often do you ignore that voice because of what you want? How often do you hear that little tug at your gut and quickly swallow it down and hastily move towards what you want? How often do you call that voice doubt when it’s really discernment and how often do you listen to the voice of doubt and call it “reason”?
Your wants really can hurt you and put you in the “pay later” zone. Later is that long list of “reasons” why you are upset. You should be mad, but mad at yourself for disrespecting, not honoring and devaluing your essence and the fullness of your worth.
Know your worth, the reason why you were born, and stand firm in it. Don’t look for ANYONE or ANYTHING to define your worth. Once you are confident, assured and walk in the true measure of the value that YOU add to the universe, you will feel less likely to relinquish it to ANYONE or ANYTHING. Once you are “good with you”, you will find it easier to align with your life’s mission with the forces needed to complete it.
Bonus: when you find yourself out of alignment, which is often where the anger and frustration sets in, you will find it easier to withdraw the negative emotions and energy in order to take the necessary steps to get back in alignment with your life’s mission. I release you, Divine One, to walk boldly in your purpose and release whatever is necessary to fulfill your life’s mission. Your audience is waiting for you to RISE UP and answer the call!
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Alesha Brown, The Joy Guru
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